This week has been a great opportunity for me to face one of my fears.

I would guess that this fear stems from a time in my childhood – when I was bitten – (not too badly) – by a dog – as I played in the street where I lived.

My fear of dogs has centered mainly on larger dogs – in particular – the German Shepherd.

Often – when out walking – I am overcome by fear – if I see such a dog heading my way – more especially when I observe that the dog is not being kept on a lead.

So – this week – coming to stay with my friend – who has two dogs – one being a German Shepherd – has caused me to have to face this fear – for I have been determined that I would not allow my fear to rob me of this precious time.

I have to say that I did not face my fear without feeling scared – but as someone once put it – “Face your fears – and do it scared” – and that’s what I did.

But – very interestingly – my fears were unfounded – right from the beginning – for even on my very first encounter – I felt so at ease – and not the least bit threatened with my friends two dogs.

In fact – it has been very interesting – and has made me laugh – that the German Shepherd has actually taken a liking to me – and – I to her!

It just goes to show that – as this quote says – “The fear of facing your fears – is harder to overcome -than the fear itself”.

I would not say that this experience has rid me of my fear of dogs entirely – but – what it has done is shown me that the reason I remain afraid of some things – could well be because I am afraid to face those fears.

I know that this time has allowed me to gain courage – and to grow in confidence – for I agree with this statement someone once made – “Each time we face our fear – we gain strength – courage – and confidence – in the doing”.

So – not only has this been a fabulous time of true connection with this dear friend – and of enjoying the beautiful surroundings – but also – a time of growth for me – showing me yet again – that I am never too old to learn new things – to face new challenges – to be able to feel confident in facing my fears and whatever life may yet have in store for me.

Blessings – Lois